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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Apr 2011 16:43:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Big Question: Am I Responsible for My Spouse When It Comes to Taxes? I am often asked about tax filings and filing status when people are in divorce. First, the big item is filing status. The typically best status (financially) is married filing jointly.  This is possible as long as you are still married on [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=207&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Arrogant and Servile?</title>
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		<title>WHY?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Mar 2011 17:06:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The biggest question asked by most clients in divorce is “Why”?  Why did this happen?  Why did he/she do this to me?  Why do I have to go through this?  Why now?  Why does he/she hate me? “Why” is the most common question asked and it generates the most damaging affects &#8212; and yet with [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=196&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Here&#8217;s the answer!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 17:40:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>What Divorcing Parents Should NOT Do?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Mar 2011 16:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[At the end of the day, you want to be able to look at your children and see confident individuals who are able to stand on their own two feet and enjoy their lives. If divorce is handled with this view in mind, the &#8220;divorce don&#8217;ts&#8221; will be easier to keep at the for front. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=188&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Helping Kids Cope With Divorce</title>
		<link>http://oaktreemediation.wordpress.com/2011/03/16/helping-kids-cope-with-divorce/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Mar 2011 17:58:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The number one thing to remember when going through a divorce is: Don&#8217;t assume your children know what&#8217;s going to happen to them!  In almost every case, kids find it extremely difficult to understand what&#8217;s going to happen.  They might not automatically understand that they&#8217;re going to have two parents living in separate houses, or [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=174&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>What does a child feel when his/ her parents are getting divorced?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2011 18:41:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most people don&#8217;t realize that Marriage Counseling is not just about helping couples with marital disputes, but it&#8217;s also about helping children cope with their parent&#8217;s divorce. It&#8217;s important for parents to understand what kids are feeling during a divorce, and how to help children cope and work through their feelings productively. Children often feel [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=166&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Pre-Divorce Planning: Can You Do This?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Mar 2011 17:19:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; A great quote we often hear is, ‘The only thing you have to fear is fear itself.”  In fact the only thing you should fear is a lack of preparation and being caught by surprise.  This applies to life in general and to divorce specifically – something most people are not familiar with and [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=162&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The Successful King (or Queen)</title>
		<link>http://oaktreemediation.wordpress.com/2010/11/16/the-successful-king-or-queen/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Nov 2010 18:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There was once a king looking to know what was the best thing to do at any point in time and where he should do it.  He thought if he could only know this, he would be successful at anything he undertook. As he was overcome by this question he set out on a journey [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=158&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Listening to Those Little Voices</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Sep 2010 17:07:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When did you last ask yourself “What I believe about me?” and then answered it honestly? It’s an interesting question because it doesn’t ask, “Why I believe,” just “What I believe.”  This question tends to produce short, quick answers such as: I’m fair, honest, compassionate; or even negative thoughts like dishonest, hard to please, angry, [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=oaktreemediation.wordpress.com&#038;blog=9607440&#038;post=153&#038;subd=oaktreemediation&#038;ref=&#038;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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